☆ The realization of this part of the behavior in Christopher took a little longer, reiterated by multiple instances in which his interactions with those that care for him the most elicited such responses for him, even though contextually it was not happening, meaning: ""That for example, one time when I was taking a walk with him around downtown Athens, Tennessee, Joyce whom is a very kind & loving lady, and whom works at the Children Services Office, was driving by and greeted Chris, and after some nice chat & interaction with her, he tells her: "Don't Be Mean to Me!" Even though she did nothing wrong, at the contrary, she was super nice to him! I have also witnessed him say that to Amanda Cooley of the District Attorney's Office, even though she is one of the people he loves & respects the most.
Chris has always been super kind, loving, and respectful to me, and I must emphasize that there is nothing romantic nor serial between us. I have not been romantically nor sensually involved with anyone in years, have zero interest on it, sex is over-rated, it is like anything else that humans do, when done regularly it becomes habitual, sometimes addictive, and it even becomes sources of greatly irrational behaviors. Any rate, not to go too much on a literary tangent, Chris sometimes tells me that too: "Don't Be Mean to Me!" However, I have realized that when he says that within the context of people that are very caring & loving towards him, what he means to say is: "Please Don't Be Mad at Me!" And the two sentences although similar ("Don't be mean to me" vs. "Don't Be mad at me") have very different significance and/or connotations. For instance, "Don't be mean to me suggests that the person to whom that is being said, has been mean, or has a habit of being mean or bad to the one saying that expression!" However, Chris can say that to people that have never mistreated him, to those that are nicer and more caring towards him. So if another person or people that are tertiary to that dual conversation or interaction hear Chris say that ("Don't be mean to me!"), that third person may think that he (Christopher) is or has been mistreated or abused by that person. When in fact in a world of cruel humans, those people treat him & have treated with more dignity & love than all others have treated him!
Now, this is yet another important point to remember while mentioning this particular expression from Christopher, as I have mentioned in other talks/discussions about Christopher on this site, in written and/or video form, Chris does sometimes use that same expression in contexts that are in fact fitting for it. Sometimes he says to a cashier or a passerby: "Don't Be Mean to Me!" And I personally have witnessed that such individuals have showed him a very negative and unwelcoming attitude, merely at face-value, by only looking at him or noticing some of his behavioral traits, which latter may not be similar to those that the average person exhibits. And that is very important, crucial really to understand about him, Christopher Meade, and people that have similar "Special Needs" or "Cognitive Challenges", that they are also human beings, and feel pain, love, hatred, negative and/or positive behavioral reinforcements, etcetera. They can be highly perceptive even though their cognitive or mental disabilities may not allow them to understand contextual behaviors rationally sometimes.
Please, when it comes to people in general, other fellow humans, but, especially or in particular when it comes to people with "special needs" such as Christopher Meade whom need the support of others even more, be more open-minded, less prone to misjudge others so quickly at face value!
One of the very interesting things that I've noticed about human beings, is that typically the most willfully ignorant, uneducated, or selfish type of human beings are the ones that most quickly and inacurately judge others at face value, oftentimes wanting to or throwing stones (physical, verbal, or otherwise) at those that/who are in fact better than they are! That latter one, "selfishness", is the worst of them all, because it can corrupt even the greatest technical skills and/or practical intelligence. That is precisely how a well known former Angel ("Lucipher") became Satan the Devil. Because a practical intelligence that is not properly countered, accounted for, or kept in check via emotional intelligence and via spiritual refinement, is therefore in danger of becoming a "bad" or "evil" intelligence, regardless of how powerful or high its practical intelligence value. And I assure you, that both "Emotional Intelligence" & "Spiritual Intelligence" supersede in importance practical intelligence.
Please, be mindful of your own sins, and do not waste too much time either overly debating "whom is more right or wrong", because both the evil demons and highly crooked humans use both sins to deteriorate the good qualities of your spirit, by abusing human laws or justice systems whom in themselves are badly design, and greatly corrupt. Religions and/or religious people can also be highly corrupt, cruel, evil, pretenders of doing good and being followers of the teachings of the Prophets whom ironically were all murdered or badly abuse by bad religious people like them. Only Jehovah God knows the heart and spirit/mind of humans! So please, act accordingly!"
May There be Peace Within You!"
Jesimiel Heavens
Burbank, Ohio
(September 7th, 2024)
